MISSION

The Spot is on a mission to create societal change through consent-based events that fuse education, joy, and community empowerment. We curate inclusive, welcoming spaces for all who value safety, connection, and authenticity -particularly queer, Polyamorous, and alternative lifestyles—are welcome.

WHO WE SERVE

  • LGBTQIA+ , Polyamory, & alternative lifestylist communities

  • People seeking safer, affirming social environments

  • Community builders, creatives, and change-makers

WHAT MAKES US DIFFERENT

The Spot blends celebration with intention:

  • Consent Circles at the start of every event

  • Quiet Rooms for sensory-sensitive guests

  • Community Board for resource sharing and local promotion

  • Feedback Loop to co-create better experiences

  • Membership Tiers for scalable involvement

EVENTS WE HOST

  • Social mixers, cuddle nights, and community festivals

  • Workshops on consent, identity, and relationship skills

  • Community service days (e.g., gardening, mutual aid)

  • Private event rentals for vetted organizers

OUR VISION

To build a community-led venue where people feel empowered to live boldly, connect deeply, and lead by example. By offering intentional, inclusive experiences, we’re reshaping what social gatherings can be—safe, fun, and transformational.

VALUES

Community • Collaboration • Honesty • Adventure • Trust
Accountability • Diversity • Joy • Integrity • Growth

Did you know?

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We stand in solidarity with organizations advocating for legal and social recognition of non-monogamy—like:

If you’re passionate about normalizing non-monogamy, we invite you to follow and support their work as well.

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